“Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.”
Colossians 3:12(NLT)
- The Way of Life
The Lord Can Handle Our Problems Jesus isn’t waiting for us to show up polished, strong, or holding everything together. He invites us to come… Read more: The Way of Life - Let Me Take Your Name
When Faith Slips into Desperation Isaiah 4:1 (NLT) “In that day so few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man,… Read more: Let Me Take Your Name - A Divided Mentality, What It Is and Why We should Avoid It
Revelations 3:7-8(NLT)“This is the message from the one who is holy and true, the one who has the key of David. What he opens, no… Read more: A Divided Mentality, What It Is and Why We should Avoid It - A Heart That Burns for God
When God Revives a Heart Ezekiel 36:26-27 (NLT)“And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I… Read more: A Heart That Burns for God - When the Relationship Has Reached Its Expiration Date
When you know it’s a Wrap God created men with the capacity for relationship, family, and responsibility. From the very beginning, His design included fruitfulness,… Read more: When the Relationship Has Reached Its Expiration Date - God Mends the Broken Heart
What Heartbreak Reveals About Your Heart Matthew 6:33(NLT)“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you… Read more: God Mends the Broken Heart - Don’t Be Fooled by Appearance
How to Discern True Blessings from Counterfeits Sheri thought she had it all figured out. The man she believed was “the one” was handsome, charming,… Read more: Don’t Be Fooled by Appearance - The Disappointment and the Sting That Lingers
When a Season Ends and Your Heart Has to Catch Up There’s a familiar saying many of us have heard: People come into your life… Read more: The Disappointment and the Sting That Lingers - Women Like Me
Led by the Spirit in a Season That Feels Slow Hebrews 12:1(NLT):“Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses,… Read more: Women Like Me - When God Sends the Help You Need
Two Are Better Than One — God Designed It This Way Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 (NLT) paints a picture of how God designed life to work: “Two… Read more: When God Sends the Help You Need - The Windows of Heaven
Giving: The Hidden Key to Alignment and Blessing Luke 6:37-38 (NLT) “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others,… Read more: The Windows of Heaven - Chosen Above All Others
Identity First. Connection Second. Destiny Always. 1 Kings 11:1-3 (NLT):“11Now King Solomon loved many foreign women. Besides Pharaoh’s daughter, he married women from Moab, Ammon,… Read more: Chosen Above All Others - The Veil That Keeps You Blind
When Faithful Hearts Can’t See Clearly: Overcoming Spiritual Blindness When I think about the many sisters in Christ who surround my life — my friends,… Read more: The Veil That Keeps You Blind - Those Who Wear the Ring but Miss the Relationship
When Commitment Lacks Communion Proverbs 30:21-23 (NLT):“There are three things that make the earth tremble—no, four it cannot endure: a slave who becomes a king,… Read more: Those Who Wear the Ring but Miss the Relationship - God Tells Us to Trust Him
Why Believing God’s Word Requires More Than Just Saying the Right Things There’s a whole world of tension wrapped up in the simple act of… Read more: God Tells Us to Trust Him - Just Friends — It Is Possible, but the Line Is Very Thin
Walking the Line Between Friendship and Feelings It’s not impossible for a man and woman to be just friends—to keep it a 100% friendship without… Read more: Just Friends — It Is Possible, but the Line Is Very Thin - Preparing Your Heart for Marriage: Agreements Worth Making NowThe Disciplines You Build Today Will Shape the Marriage You Keep Tomorrow Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 (NLT) gives us a beautiful truth about the power of partnership:… Read more: Preparing Your Heart for Marriage: Agreements Worth Making Now
- When the Struggle is Part of the Shift
The Hard Truth About Change Most of us don’t enjoy the process of transformation. And if we’re completely honest—if we could become the absolute best… Read more: When the Struggle is Part of the Shift - I’m Attracting Men that Don’t Want Marriage
Align with God, Attract What He’s Prepared For many single Christian women, this is more than just a frustrating phase—it’s a deeply personal and often… Read more: I’m Attracting Men that Don’t Want Marriage - God’s Shield of Love
When Marriage Feels Like the Final Destination For many single women, marriage feels like the final destination—the ultimate goal and purpose in life. That’s why… Read more: God’s Shield of Love - The Benefit of Two People Together
The Strength of Covenant and Connection “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the… Read more: The Benefit of Two People Together - Waiting on God for Marriage: Are You Speaking Words of Faith?
The Power of Speaking Life in the Waiting Season There’s something sacred about waiting for the kind of love your heart longs for—the kind you’ve… Read more: Waiting on God for Marriage: Are You Speaking Words of Faith? - The Pain That Pushes You Forward
2 Corinthians 7:9 (NLT)“Now I am glad I sent it, not because it hurt you, but because the pain caused you to repent and change… Read more: The Pain That Pushes You Forward - Watching from the Sidelines
“Have you met anyone yet?” Carla hesitated. That question always stirred something heavy in her chest. Instead of answering, she gave a soft smile and… Read more: Watching from the Sidelines - From Waiting Rooms to Blessing Rooms — Learning to Love God First
Luke 12:48 (NLT)“But someone who does not know, and then does something wrong, will be punished only lightly. When someone has been given much, much… Read more: From Waiting Rooms to Blessing Rooms — Learning to Love God First - What Will You Get in the End
Jeremiah 17:7-8 (NLT):“But blessed are those who trust in the LORD and have made the LORD their hope and confidence. 8 They are like trees… Read more: What Will You Get in the End - Right Direction Leads to the Right PersonPsalm 119:105 (NLT):“Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.” God’s presence is a place of peace, but… Read more: Right Direction Leads to the Right Person
- A Clean Heart Loves Without Fear
1 John 4:18 (NLT):“Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and… Read more: A Clean Heart Loves Without Fear - A Heart Willing to Submit to Service1 Corinthians 7:35 (NLT)“I am saying this for your benefit, not to place restrictions on you. I want you to do whatever will help you… Read more: A Heart Willing to Submit to Service
- Greater Lives in YouWrestling with Desire, Faith, and God’s Timing Romans 7:15–17 (NLT)“I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t… Read more: Greater Lives in You
- Goodies from Heaven
Galatians 5:19–21 (NLT) says, “When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry, sorcery,… Read more: Goodies from Heaven - Seeing Everything with Perfect Clarity
Life doesn’t wait to ask questions. Sometimes, the minute we open our eyes, we’re faced with choices that feel heavy. Should I call out sick… Read more: Seeing Everything with Perfect Clarity - What Love Will Teach You
1 John 2:15 (NLT):“Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the… Read more: What Love Will Teach You - The Smile of God Is Still on You
Numbers 6:24–26 (NLT)“May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show… Read more: The Smile of God Is Still on You - Squeeze Out Fear
Faith isn’t optional. Hebrews 11:6 (NLT) makes this very clear to us: “And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to… Read more: Squeeze Out Fear - A Dream Waiting to Happen
Time is passing with increased momentum, and for many single followers of Christ, fear begins to settle in. They wonder if anything will ever change.… Read more: A Dream Waiting to Happen - Solid Foundations Won’t Crack
Proverbs 9:13 (NLT)“The woman named Folly is brash. She is ignorant and doesn’t know it.” There are some clear distinctions between a woman of the world… Read more: Solid Foundations Won’t Crack - God’s Provision Protects You from Slipping
Proverbs 3:5 (NLT)“Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.” “If I don’t make it happen, nobody else will.” How many… Read more: God’s Provision Protects You from Slipping - Your Uncertainty is Not a Challenge for GodProverbs 3:5-6 (NLT)“Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and… Read more: Your Uncertainty is Not a Challenge for God
- Examination Time
Proverbs 5:21 (NIV)“For your ways are in full view of the Lord, and he examines all your paths.” If we pull back all the layers… Read more: Examination Time - Remain Close to God
There’s something powerful about presence. It’s not just about someone physically being around—it’s about how their presence makes you feel anchored, known, and seen. When… Read more: Remain Close to God - Sinful Words or Words that SaveEphesians 4:29, 31 (NIV):“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to… Read more: Sinful Words or Words that Save
- A Fulfilling Life in Christ
John 6:26-27,35 (NLT)“26 Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, you want to be with me because I fed you, not because you understood the… Read more: A Fulfilling Life in Christ - Remain Faithful to God’s PromisesExodus 16:16-18 (NLT) “16 These are the Lord’s instructions: Each household should gather as much as it needs. Pick up two quarts for each person… Read more: Remain Faithful to God’s Promises
- The Result of Believing that God Hears Your Prayer
Matthew 16:19(NLT)“Jesus Christ said ‘And I will give you the keys of the Kingdom of Heaven. Whatever you forbid on earth will be forbidden in… Read more: The Result of Believing that God Hears Your Prayer - The Sweetness of Godly Conversation
Proverbs 16:24 ( NLT)“Kind words are like honey, sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.” There’s something truly special about a conversation that… Read more: The Sweetness of Godly Conversation - Unfinished Business of Being a HaterProverbs 10:12(NLT)“Hatred stirs up quarrels, but love makes up for all offenses.” Some women seem to thrive on confrontation, and they always want to be… Read more: Unfinished Business of Being a Hater
- Not Without God
1 Peter 3:12-13(NLT)“The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turns… Read more: Not Without God - Consistent and Unwavering
Revelations 3:7-8 (NLT)“Write this letter to the angel of the church in Philadelphia. This is the message from the one who is holy and true,… Read more: Consistent and Unwavering - Always Bearing Fruit
“He’ll come when you aren’t looking.” If you’re in wait mode for the one God has ordained to walk with you through life, you’ve probably… Read more: Always Bearing Fruit - God Is Never Late
Hosea 6:3(NLT)“Oh, that we might know the LORD! Let us press on to know him. He will respond to us as surely as the arrival… Read more: God Is Never Late - Did I Leave the Door Open?
Proverbs 19:2-3 (NLT)“2 Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes. 3 People ruin their lives by their own foolishness and then are angry… Read more: Did I Leave the Door Open? - Participating in Your HealingColossians 2:10 (NLT)“So you also are complete through your union with Christ, who is the head over every ruler and authority.” When a relationship falls… Read more: Participating in Your Healing
- That Kind of Love
1 John 3:16-17 The Message (MSG)“This is how we have come to understand and experience love: Christ sacrificed his life for us. This is why… Read more: That Kind of Love - God Is Never Second PlaceWhat happens when a couple wants to take their relationship to the next level of commitment but can’t seem to get past their lack of… Read more: God Is Never Second Place
- The Power that Saves Your SoulsAll of us get angry at some point in our lives. It’s part of being human, and nobody escapes it. Even our Lord and Savior,… Read more: The Power that Saves Your Souls
- Steps Ordained from the Very Beginning
Ephesians 2:10 (NLT) tells us, “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things… Read more: Steps Ordained from the Very Beginning - Will God Give Me What I Desire Most?
As the clock struck midnight, my phone started buzzing with a flood of “Happy New Year!” messages. Friends and family were eager to reach out—and… Read more: Will God Give Me What I Desire Most? - The Solution to Not Being AloneGenesis 2:18 (NLT) tells us “Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who… Read more: The Solution to Not Being Alone
- If God Says It, Then It Will Happen
Spiritual maturity isn’t just about getting older – it’s about becoming more like our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. But let’s keep it real: growing… Read more: If God Says It, Then It Will Happen - When More is RequiredDo you know that God has a plan for how our single years are supposed to be occupied? Indeed, He does, and it doesn’t have… Read more: When More is Required
- What Happens Next?No one can truly describe heartbreak or understand the depth of pain it brings unless they’ve experienced it themselves. Even after going through a few… Read more: What Happens Next?
- The Right Man Won’t Rest Until It’s Settled
Psalm 37:4 (NLT) is a verse that should be imprinted on the minds and hearts of every person with a dream. It tells us, “Take… Read more: The Right Man Won’t Rest Until It’s Settled - Listen to the Lord
“Life is a trip!” If you’re like me, you’ve heard many people make this statement, and if we’re honest, we’d have to agree that, yes,… Read more: Listen to the Lord - A Permanent Fix to What’s Broken
With all its ups and downs, life can be very unpredictable, and for many, the most painful trial comes when a marriage is on the… Read more: A Permanent Fix to What’s Broken - What Else Must I Do?
“How much longer do I have to wait? What else am I supposed to do?” Imagine being told that to receive what you desire most;… Read more: What Else Must I Do? - God Knows It All
Our Heavenly Father is omnipresence, omniscient, and omnipotent. There isn’t anything He can’t do, and He knows everything there is to know. Proverbs 15:11 (NLT)… Read more: God Knows It All - Unbothered by the Drought
Jeremiah 17:7-8 (NLT) tells us, “But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence. They are… Read more: Unbothered by the Drought - Nothing Is Too Big for God
Luke 22:42 (NLT) says, “Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be… Read more: Nothing Is Too Big for God - Asking for Love
Isaiah 43:1 (NLT) declares, “But now, O Jacob, listen to the Lord who created you. O Israel, the one who formed you says, ‘Do not… Read more: Asking for Love - What’s in Your Heart?
I’ve often heard the saying that you don’t truly know a person until you live with them. While there’s some truth to this, the Bible… Read more: What’s in Your Heart? - Words that Lead to Peace
Ephesians 4:29-32 (NLT) provides clear guidance on how we should communicate and live our lives. It says, “Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything… Read more: Words that Lead to Peace - Never Married
Here’s the scenario of a Christian woman who is turning 50, has never been married, and deeply desires to be. She is troubled by the… Read more: Never Married - Full of God’s Purpose
You don’t have to settle for a dull or empty life just because you’re single. Sometimes, a simple change in perspective can make a big… Read more: Full of God’s Purpose - God Doesn’t Want You to Be SadLife can be incredibly challenging, and we all face moments when sadness seems to engulf us. Whether it’s due to personal loss, stress, or the… Read more: God Doesn’t Want You to Be Sad
- Understand What God Wants You to DoWhen you meet someone new who seems compatible, it’s very exciting. You might think that your prayers have been answered and find your perspective shifting… Read more: Understand What God Wants You to Do
- In Search of the Other Half that Makes You Whole
Josephine’s biological parents were both alcoholics—her mother frequently in and out of rehab, and her father unable to keep a job for more than a… Read more: In Search of the Other Half that Makes You Whole - My Husband Is in God’s Hands
Most men I know would likely agree that respect is the most important quality in a wife. This consensus suggests that, for many men, respect… Read more: My Husband Is in God’s Hands - A Dream Fulfilled
A close friend and I were talking about how much she’s grown over the past year. She’s been abstinent and placing her trust in God… Read more: A Dream Fulfilled - God Doesn’t Want You to Be Sad
Life can be incredibly challenging, and we all face moments when sadness seems to engulf us. Whether it’s due to personal loss, stress, or the… Read more: God Doesn’t Want You to Be Sad - A Love Built on God’s Standards
“I know exactly what I want from a man, and I want a relationship on my own terms. I think I deserve that.” My friend… Read more: A Love Built on God’s Standards - Deny Yourself
Jesus Christ stated in Luke 9:23-24 (ESV), “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow… Read more: Deny Yourself - Before Your Vineyard of Love is Ruined
In Song of Solomon 2:15 (NLT), we read, “Catch all the foxes, those little foxes, before they ruin the vineyard of love, for the grapevines… Read more: Before Your Vineyard of Love is Ruined - The Most Important Step to Godly Marriage
In 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NLT), God’s Word teaches us a profound truth: “19 Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy… Read more: The Most Important Step to Godly Marriage - God Can’t Be Rushed
There are inevitably days when being single feels like it’s outstayed its welcome. Longing for the companionship of a husband, you yearn for those days… Read more: God Can’t Be Rushed - Don’t Follow in Eve’s Footsteps
The Biblical record of Eve in the Garden of Eden isn’t just a cautionary lesson about temptation, but it also serves as a reminder of… Read more: Don’t Follow in Eve’s Footsteps - Now is Not the Time to Be Comfortable
One day, while waiting at a red light in my car, I observed a woman crossing a busy intersection, completely absorbed in her cell phone.… Read more: Now is Not the Time to Be Comfortable - God Is Always Watching
Ephesians 5:15 (NLT) delivers a powerful truth: “So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise.” This verse… Read more: God Is Always Watching - Eyes Are on You
In Luke 16:10(NLT), our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, imparts profound wisdom about the stewardship of God’s blessings. He teaches, “If you are faithful in… Read more: Eyes Are on You - Embracing the Companionship of Pure Hearts
Through the words of the Apostle Paul in 2 Timothy 2:22 (NLT), God provides us with clear guidance: “Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts.… Read more: Embracing the Companionship of Pure Hearts - I’ve Been Single Long Enough
“It’s still too early to tell, but I really like this guy I’m seeing,” Vanessa, a good friend I’ve known for many years, confided in… Read more: I’ve Been Single Long Enough - You Are Mine
Meeting someone you feel compatible with has become increasingly challenging for many people. It appears that individuals, both believers and non-believers alike, are postponing marriage.… Read more: You Are Mine - When Love Turns Sour
One of the lessons that we quickly learn as adults is that relationships require work, and sometimes lots of it. Most of us conclude that… Read more: When Love Turns Sour - The Harvest is Great, but the Workers Are Few
Matthew 9:37-38(NLT)“He said to his disciples, “The harvest is great, but the workers are few. So pray to the Lord who is in charge of… Read more: The Harvest is Great, but the Workers Are Few - I Can’t Wait to Get Married!
Many of God’s promises inspire hope and excitement in us, but there are two simply written and powerful scriptures that will help to build our… Read more: I Can’t Wait to Get Married! - Why Your Current Approach Isn’t Leading You to Marriage
As modern Christians, we’ve received more revelation about God’s Word than perhaps any other time in human history. We’ve become sophisticated in formulating our thoughts… Read more: Why Your Current Approach Isn’t Leading You to Marriage - Your Face Mirrors Your Heart
Proverbs 27:19 (MSG)“Just as water mirrors your face, so your face mirrors your heart.” A while ago, I met up with two friends and both… Read more: Your Face Mirrors Your Heart - God Knows What’s Happening to YouJeremiah 15:15 (NLT)“Lord, you know what’s happening to me. Please step in and help me…” Most of us can relate to the words of Jeremiah.… Read more: God Knows What’s Happening to You
- I Have to Make a Change
After a friend went MIA for a little over a month, she shared with me that she had decided to make some changes to her… Read more: I Have to Make a Change - Are They Pursuing God Harder than They’re Pursuing You?
Dating is a social norm in our modern times, but God doesn’t carve out a space for it in His Word. That’s because His commandment… Read more: Are They Pursuing God Harder than They’re Pursuing You?